I've done it again!

The Army Half Marathon that is!

A race that I almost didn't start. The training which I hardly got into. With knees that caused me to doubt if I should even do it. All the odds were against me going to the start line. With the hubs and helper away, who was going to sort out the kids? What if I couldn't play tennis for a long time to come because of my knees? V and I already had discussed the week before, and somehow instead of egging each other on, we were almost on the brink of giving up, even before we even started! I'm so glad we got there in the end... never mind that I went with the intention of walking as soon as my knees started to complain... never mind that I was prepared to clock a worse time than last year given the lack of training especially in the last 2 weeks without any help at home...never mind the I didn't get much sleep the night before. (D woke at 3am, and I couldn't get back to sleep)

BUT I DID IT! In 2:37.30. 9 minutes faster than last year. At a faster pace as well. runpix.com says I ran the first 11km at 7.6kph, and the next 10 km at 8.6kph! Wow! I surprised myself! I felt good throughout the run. Knees started to ache at about 9km, but I knew that was not going to stop me. I wanted to get to the 15-16km mark, and then decide what to do after that. When I got there, I felt better than ever, and just kept going! It helped that the route this year was much more enjoyable, taking us past Marina Bay sands, and again along the F1 track. The end was also much less demoralising, as there were no u-turns after the Nicoll Highway as they did last year, and no bottle-necks where the 21 and 10 km runners met.

Post-run, I had some knee swelling, and pain in my feet, but today, the day after, I have no post-race effects to speak of, other than mild muscle soreness! The knees feel great!

After the race yesterday, the adrenaline high took me through the whole day, even managing to take the 3 kids to watch Sesame Street live on stage in the afternoon.

I finally hit the sack at 930pm with the kids, feeling thankful that the Lord took me through the race, and the day, full of energy, preserving my body, and teaching me that in any race we will never see the finish line if we give up even before the race has begun...

Several months later...

This blog has been really quiet for a while huh?! My life has been so busy this last few months, revolving around the children and an increasing workload. Whilst an increasing workload means I'm earning more, it also means that I'm spending a lot less time with the children. As a result of this, I'm starting to see some changes in behavioural patterns in the girls, especially K1. It's a real struggle now. I'm pretty sure it's because I'm spending less time at home with her. I still make it a point to send, and pick her up from school, however, after I drop her home, I have to zip off to work, and often do not return home till 6-7pm about 2-3 days a week. K2 on the other hand go to school 3 days a week, and only for 3 hours each time. So I have more time one-on-one with her. K1 had been acting up, especially at meal times, being more difficult, and not wanting to play her role of the eldest sister anymore... sometimes even commenting,"how come I don't get to spend time with you." It breaks my heart, and makes my wonder if earning that bit more money is really worth it.

I'm so glad that we've been able to have a family holiday. the first one this year. A driving trip up to KL, and Fraser's, then back to Melaka for 1 night. It was a trip which exceeded our expectations. Firstly, the 2 hotels we stayed in KL and Melaka were both excellent ones, with a fantastic room and pool, in great locations in each city. The KL stay was great for the food, shopping and walks in places we had never discovered before. Melaka was rediscovered as a great holiday destination now with the new hotel which is not too expensive, walking distance to the malls and eating places. The new mega mall was HUGE! We only managed to shop in 2 shops spending way too much money, and they were both FOS shops! We didn't even have time to go to the other mall across the road... oh well... saved some money there...:) Fraser's was as usual the best place for family time bonding with my parents, brother and sis-in-law, godpa and aunt, as well as for the cousins! All this made even better by the delicious food served out at each meal... The kids were so happy just to be on holiday... it's the simple pleasures...

So... this post has been sitting as a draft for about 3 months now... waiting to get posted... here, I have completed it... now for the photos!

My big girl all on her own

some national garden in KL

KLCC park

In front of the twin towers

simple pleasures... eating ice lollies by the river in Meleka

A 3 year old and 11 months old and other reflections...

It's about time I did a new post I think.

Jodie has been gone for about a month now, and the family is now starting to get used to being without a dog. Initially, the house felt so empty despite having 3 kids to fill the space and add to the noise pollution. It's just how Jodie used to be around, yet be unnoticed, the way she would greet us at the door, then go off to her corner, or snuggle up to us when we sat on the floor. The squeak of her ball occasionally, then her persistence in wanting you to play 'fetch' with her... all these little things are just taken for granted, and dearly missed when it's not around. We used to think twice about leaving food on low tables for fear of Jodie grabbing at them, it still is instinctive to think twice, then realise that she's not around anymore... We also realised that we started to get more mynahs in our kitchen, leaving their droppings, stealing food from the bins, and even picking food out of the pots on the stove! I kept wondering why it was less so in the 2 months since we moved in... then the realisation hit me, when I deduced that Jodie must have been keeping the birds away! Either by chasing them, or that they knew that a dog was around here, and never tried to get too close! These are things we just take for granted, and don't appreciate about others, whether 4 or 2-legged, until they are gone...

Anyway, K and I were toying with the idea of getting another dog immediately. We went to SPCA, the pet farm, and some pet shops looking for a replacement. A month on, we have gotten used to not having a dog to take on our walks, not needing to clean up after her, not needing to think about whether she needs to go out to do her business etc... I have decided that we'll wait till the kids are older before we venture into getting another pet... the thought of training a puppy all over again is just a bit too daunting for me now.

Well, this year has been rather eventful thus far... K2 had her 3rd birthday, and baby D turns 11 months today!

The day before her birthday, I made a cake and brought to school for her to celebrate with her friends in school. The next day, we had a simple day out with all the kids. Both daddy and I took the day off work, and brought her to the playground in the morning. She was allowed to do and eat anything she wanted for the day! After getting K1 from school, we had lunch at Macs, and then headed off to Sentosa for the afternoon. K2 requested to go to Underwater world, so that's where we headed. We had a great time, and she especially enjoyed the dolphin and fur seals show at the new dolphin lagoon. After which, we went to the beach, and played on the sand till it was time to go home for dinner. All the grandparents were at home waiting for the birthday girl for dinner, and to have her birthday cake! Hopefully she'll remember this day for a while.

Mr D is 11 months old today... so here this mummy has to start cracking her head to think of how to celebrate his 1st birthday. Traditionally, the other 2 girls had a party with cousins at their 1st birthday... so I guess it'll have to be so too... must be fair right?

D has been practicing his walking with the push-walker for about 1 month now and has started standing for a few seconds on his own... so I anticipate his first steps soon... He is such a bundle of joy to be with. He has such a pleasant disposition, crying only when he's hungry or tired. He has smiles for everyone most of the time... just makes me smile....

I'll leave you with these pics... and more on FB

We will remember you...

Our first baby, Jodie, left us at about 4.20am this morning. It'll be a night we'll remember for a long time.

I apologise that my first post of the year is starting on such a dismal note... this has been the mood in the house for the last 2 weeks since we first noticed that she was looking lethargic, and very weak. It came to a point 2 weeks ago when she was limping so badly, we had to take her to the vet, and admit her. She was anaemic, and found to have the tick-borne bacteria ehrlichia in her blood. After the first night hospitalised, the vet decided she needed a blood transfusion. Thanks to Buddy, his blood matched hers, and a transfusion was done. This gave Jodie 1 more good week, before we noticed that she started to weaken again. At the next blood test, her blood cells had reduced to lower-than-ever levels. Dr H concluded that she might have had the infection for a long time, since we had noticed some of the symptoms about a year ago, but was not picked up at the visits then. She thought that the chronic infection had destroyed the bone marrow, and thus Jodie was not producing her own blood cells. We could have done more blood transfusions, but that would just prolong her poor health... so we took the last option, which was to let her live the rest of her days as she pleased.

Jodie's health deteriorated at such a rapid speed. Within 1 day, she was weak, unable to walk, and just struggling... We knew last night would be her last. We decided to spend the night as a family beside her, staying up with her as much as possible.

At 3am, Jodie started taking long, laboured breaths. K decided that it was time to put her down, as he didn't want to see her suffer longer. We drove to the 24hr animal clinic. Along the way, with the windows down, Jodie wanted to feel the wind blowing in her face. The sight of her with the wind blowing her ears, was so heartwarming! She looked so happy again, it even seemed like her breathing had calmed down slightly. She even looked like she was flying! (if only I could have taken a pic of her) When we got to the clinic, we felt that she still had a few hours to go, and wanted to spend the rest of the time with her, so we brought her home again. She seemed to insist on being left alone, as she kept walking to the corner away from us, but we just wanted to be near her, and watch her. Eventually, she took her last walk into the house, went to sniff at K1, daddy K carried her to K2, and then laid her down on her bed in the house. She struggled slightly, let out a low-pitched moan, and breathed her last...

We cried over her body, mourning her loss, but were really happy that she went peacefully, on her own.

Many things we'll remember about Jodie...

we'll remember her sad eyes and endearing look at the window of the pet shop that stole our hearts, only to realise that she was a good actress when we brought her home. Super hyper, playful, yet very loving. The time spent toilet training, obedience training; the frustrations and moments of anger when she messed the house, the sofa, scratched or bit any of us, or showed her jealousy and lack of attention when the children arrived; her irritating barking every time someone said 'bye' and wanted to leave the house (apparently she didn't like people to leave). She left token memorabilia on the hands of some of the guests at our house. We will miss the beach swims, the long runs and walks, the ball games... We will miss having to constantly watch out for the little scavenger under the table, waiting to pounce on our unattended food. We will miss the cuddles we shared in bed; she was our little foot warmer and electric blanket all rolled into a furry bear-like perfect companion.

K1 put it very aptly: The house will not be the same again, right?

Rest in peace, Jodie, we love you...